Parenting-Duty
B hagavad Gita (Chapter 3: Karma Yoga) – Duty of the Householder “Svadharme nidhanam shreyah, paradharmo bhayavahah” (Better to fail in one’s own duty than to succeed in the duty of another.) Parents must understand their svadharma — their duty as grihasthas (householders). For the elder son, they play a guiding role, especially in teaching responsibility. If they: Force the son into roles that aren’t his nature ( swabhava ), Compare him with others, Overburden him with emotional or financial responsibility, …it breaks his confidence and sense of dharma . Instead, by nurturing his varna and guna (natural inclinations and qualities), parents can build a strong karta (doer/leader). 2. Ramayana – Example of Dasharatha and Rama King Dasharatha gave his eldest son Rama a solid foundation: Trust and Responsibility : Made Rama heir despite his own attachments. Righteous Education : Sent him to Rishi Vashishta and Vishwamitra. No Overprotection : Let Rama fight demons ( ...